How to know if a friend is gay

My Friend is Gay-What Should I do Now?

Coming-out confession can be a tough event for lgbtq+, lesbian, bisexual and transgender people. But it can equally be tough for you, especially when the other person is your friend or co-worker. And nothing can be more challenging than being the epicentre of the coming-out confession. As per a survey by Gallup, 1 in 6 Gen Z adults is LGBT. Hence by that logic, we all have a rainbow sheep hiding in our friend circle. For some of you, it may not be surprising as you already have gay friends who came out to you, and you were able to handle them pretty well. But for many of you, it can be a surprising and awkward moment as it can be tricky to handle such a situation in real being. I know of a buddy who was so stressed out when a friend came out to her as gay that she broke in front of me. Another friend of mine often wondered, &#;I think my comrade is gay. What do I do now?&#; So what to undertake when your friend is gay? Let&#;s get into it. 

I had one of my close friends, who I always suspected was gay. I was sure that he would co

How Do I Help My Gay Friend?

by D’Ann Davis

“How do I help my gay friend?”  This is a question we notice constantly in the Living Hope office, when out speaking at events, or from friends and church members from around the world.  Twenty years ago few Christians asked this question, for few knew any same gender attracted people, or if they did know them, they were ignorant to their friend’s struggles.  Today almost everyone knows of someone who identifies as queer or deals with a measure of same gender attractions.  Even if a Christian finds himself in a season of being where he does not personally know of a same gender attracted (SGA) person in his sphere of influence, this ask is of utmost importance in light of the change of our customs and the growing willingness of Christians dealing with SGA to openly converse about their issues.  So how does one aid a gay-identified friend or SGA friend?

The first response I typically give to this question is actually another question.  “Does your friend know Jesus?”  This is a vital first question any believer must tackle before attem

Understanding the Situation

Sexual orientation is a personal matter, and unless your friend explicitly tells you, you can never be % sure. However, if you’re wondering whether your acquaintance might be homosexual, either because you suspect they’re struggling with their individuality or you ponder they might possess feelings for you, it’s important to approach the topic with sensitivity and respect.

Here are some common signs that might indicate your friend is homosexual and how to navigate the situation without making assumptions or making them uncomfortable.

1. They Escape Talking About Their Love Life

If your friend dodges conversations about crushes or relationships but is comfortable talking about every other aspect of their existence, it might be because they’re not ready to talk about their sexual orientation.

Examples:

  • They change the subject when someone asks about their virtual dating life.
  • They rarely bring up any romantic interests.
  • They seem uncomfortable when discussing relationships with the opposite gender.

This doesn’t necessarily represent they’re gay, some people are just private, but if

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I have a similar situation with my association. My boyfriends gay companion is inLove with him and he doesn&#;t comprehend that.  there is so many things that produce me realize that.

1 they see each other once a week to beverage in a bar, when they do and acquire drunk, my boyfriends lgbtq+ friend starts complementing him  in front of me , like his handsome, touching his arm ( in a way that makes me uncomfortable), looking him with this in love eyes. start making inappropriate joke

2 he had a picture of a naked guy that looks like my boyfriend and even he shows the pictures to everybody. and he start saying  DOESNT HE LOOK LIKE HIM???

3  he told my partner that he heard that i was dating one of his friends  a couple of times( guy that I don&#;t even know). obviously lies.. don&#;t know what was exactly his intention.

4 he invited my boyfriend first  to an island  and a week after he mentioned and then he invited me .. ( last minute) obiously my boyfriend/girlfriend didn&#;t