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The 5 Most Common Types of Subs and Bottoms in Homosexual BDSM Relationships—and the Toys They Love
Gay BDSM relationships celebrate the thrilling dynamics of power, pleasure, and submission. Submissives and bottoms are at the heart of these dynamics, each bringing singular desires and preferences to the bedroom (or dungeon). Whether youre a curious domme, a seasoned submissive, or someone looking to explore the world of BDSM, understanding these roles—and the fixation sex toys they adore—can support enhance your connection and play.
Here’s a look at five frequent types of submissives and bottoms in gay BDSM relationships, along with the sex toys that complement their kinks.
- The Service Submissive
Who They Are:
Service submissives thrive on pleasing their dominant partners. They find satisfaction in fulfilling tasks and being submissive, whether its fetching drinks or kneeling at their domme’s feet. Their pleasure often comes from knowing they’ve pleased their domme, even if they don’t directly receive sexual gratification during play.
Toys They Love:
- Collars and Leashes: A
Understanding and embracing your sexual identity as a gay human is like finally finding the missing piece to a puzzle. Its liberating, its empowering, and its downright fabulous. But, we all know that the journey to self-discovery can be a little complicated, and thats okay! When it comes to gay sexuality, one of the most confusing things can be figuring out if youre a top or a bottom. Dont fret, thats where we come in! In this post, were gonna break it down, talk about the signs that indicate you may be a compliant gay bottom and explore the complexities of this specific aspect of queer sexuality, and aid to provide a better understanding of it. So, clutch a drink, and lets dive in!
What is a following gay bottom?
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6. Condom Negotiation
Before having sex, it’s best to have a conversation about condoms, where everybody is on the same page and doesn’t feel pressured into anything they don’t want to do, for fear of not having sex (any bottoms out there reading this? If a top says they won’t sleep with you because you want them to wear a condom – that’s a red flag! Walk away, hon!). Allowing people to select the prevention method that works best for them means that everyone can feel comfortable and empowered during their sexual experiences.
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The Difference Between: Dom/Top/Sub/Bottom
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There's a difference.
Dom/Sub V.S. Top/Bottom
Dom/Sub refers to how much authority or power someone has over another.
Top/Bottom refers to action.
What is a Dom?
A Dominant, or Dom, refers to BDSM relationships and sex regarding the role one person takes. In this role, this person has more control/power/authority in a D/S relationship.
What is a Sub?
A Submissive (person) or Sub, also refers to BDSM relationships and sex regarding the role one person takes. Unlike a bottom, this tends to be someone that embodies a role of submission within a partnership dynamic, either full-time or part-time, depending on what has been negotiated between the people involved.
What is a Top?
A Top is someone who performs an action.
What is a bottom?
A Bottom is someone who receives an action, usually from a top.
Positions
Submissive Bottom
Unlike power bottoms, a passive bottom is the loved one in who let's